Momnesia

Someone nominated me for Best Humor Blog, Best Entertainment Blog, best Parenting Blog, and Best Blog of All Time! Thanks, whoever! Although I think if they had a category called Random Thoughts From the Head of a Prozac Fiend it might be more appropriate.

Alas, there are so few of us.

In honor of my first "Bloggie" nomination, I'm going to be reposting some of my favorite entries, along with the awards tag so you'll know that I'm recycling stuff on purpose, and not just trying to pull a fast one. But after three years of posts, I could. You wouldn't even know.

I'm discussing the plot of an upcoming play with the director and the actor playing the main character. It's a disturbing play, and I have no intention of seeing it, yet it's definitely powerful theater. The main character has few redeeming qualities, and the actor is enjoying the portrayal, until...

"I just realized that I'm taking advantage of a potato head. I never thought about it that way."

This movie is going to be awesome. I cannot believe someone got funding for this! Weresheep. That's what Willis was talkin' about!

Out of context comments from artist Paul Pearman:

"My momma was like, 'As long as you're not a homosexual."

"There was this French guy..."

"He makes a real good Boudin Blanc. Let him in."

"You are not going to believe this, but I got these people coming to my house from Atlanta."

"People are like: 'I went to high school with that guy. I'm not going to give him $400.'"

"It's like me in a trench coat... but it's all glass."

It comes as no surprise to me that the zombie infestation began in Hollywood. They've been warning us about the possibility for decades.

It has been pointed out to me that I have a friend known as Snarkalufagus. He appears whenever people are not looking, strikes, and then sinks back into the night. It's odd. I never see him, but A.C. chides, "Bad Stacey is back!" And then I look at see that my hair is steaming and my chest is heaving and while many, many people actually enjoy the latter, it is no fun to have people beat me about the head with towels and lightweight Spring jackets. Or, in T.G.'s case, cargo pants. Because he seems to have plenty of extras.

There! Did you see that? Snarkalufagus. A big, lumbering elephantine smartass that tromps on the singing cartoon forest animals that normally bedeck my feet. (sigh) It's the reason my editor looks at me askance during editorial meetings. It's the reason my husband spends a lot of time sitting outside with a book. It's the reason Emerson, at the age of two, has already learned to cock her head to the side, put her hands on her hips, and snap: "Wha - eber."

My mother must be so proud.

We're discussing what to do for the cover image of an upcoming cover story on tribute bands. Everyone thinks that KISS is the band with the most impersonators, but it's actually the Beatles. Which is almost sacreligious, since they're neither comic nor dead. But there you have it. We're tossing around album cover concepts, when Amy wins every brainstorming session ever held: "We could do The White Album."

Yes. Genius.

I just wanted my purse back. It didn't seem like that much to ask. After someone smashed in my back passenger window (the side with Emerson's car seat. Awesome!) and stole it, they had my license, social security card, and other assorted important document-type things that I needed to get on with my life.

But, as fate would have it, the police found it... somewhere. I don't know. They have yet to return my telephone calls, and notified me that I could come and pick it up. That's another lovely story. But I digress. What should have been a 15-minute trip on my lunch break took me an hour-and-a-half to complete. And I didn't even get lunch!

First, I drove around trying to find an unreserved parking place at 401 Walton Way, what locals call "401," which is the combination jail, courthouse and records divisions of the sheriff's dept.

Then, I went through the metal detectors at the door. Keys and change in a basket. Wait in line. Hope no one who gets through the line in front of you steals keys and change. Wait some more. Get through the line. Finally.

Then, I asked directions to where I pick up stolen property from the officer at the other end of that line.

"Who stole yo' stuff?" he shouted. I cringed. I just need to know where to go.
"I - I, uh, well, if I knew that, I'd probably have my stuff back by now," I joked back to him.
"Oh, she told you!" the other officer cackled.
"Awright, awright! Records is upstairs at da end of da hall, ma'am. You be good, now," he said with an appraising stare at my boobs. Cliche of him, but at least people still look you know?
"Thanks, I will."

Upstairs, there is another line at the records department. It moves slowly. At the window, I explain what I need.
"You need that window," the lady points, not unkindly, to the window opposite hers. Oooookay.
I step over to the other window, where there is no line, but the woman is chewing gum and talking on the phone. There are a lot of "honey" and "darlin'"s going on.

When she gets off, I explain what I need. She sends me back to the first window for a case number. They send me back to the other window for an officer's name. Then I go back and get my case number. Then we do the hokey-pokey and turn ourselves about. That is, after all, what it is all about.

Finally, I get the number I need from First Window Lady, and the form I need from Second Window Lady.
"Where do I go now?" I asked SWL.


As it turns out, I get the hell out of her building, and go in search of a completely different building. I get in my car, drive down the street, find the garage, pull into the driveway, and am stopped by a large loud man.
"You can't come in here!" he barks. I wave my paper at him.
"I'm just picking up my purse," I smile broadly. Smiling is good. Smiling makes people happy. Smiling makes other people smile back.

This man is not an other people.
"You have to go over there." He points down the block.
I drive down the block, round the corner, and find the entrance to the fenced-in, razor wire topped parking lot. It is separated from where I need to go by another razor-topped fence.

I walk around the block to get back to the entrance where there are plenty of parking spaces with no cars in them, including mine, because apparently, though these spaces are unmarked, my car is not allowed to play their reindeer games.

The man that is not an other people greets me as though he did not just send to park at the other end of the earth, so far away that I was forced to take a time machine to get back here before they closed for the day.

"Where you goin'?" he demanded. I pulled out my form again. "I'm going - "
"No, you in the wrong place. You gotta go back to records."
"But I just came from records."
"Well, you gotta go back."

(sigh) I turn to leave and then...
"Excuse me, for what?"
He looks at me like I have two heads: "WHAT?"
"I said, what do I need from records?" I asked politely.
He continued to stare at me.
"I have the form, and the case number, and the officer name, and my drivers license. What else might I need from records?" I tried to look innocently confused.
He frowned. "Go on, then."

I walked down the row of heavy garage doors to a metal office door and pressed the buzzer.
"Yeah?" a woman's voice said.
"I'm here to pick up my purse."
"Come on in," she said as the lock clanked open.


I approached the evidence window and pulled out my paperwork.
"Hi, I'm here to pick up my purse. The police found it."
She looked at the paperwork and typed into her computer. No luck. After a few minutes searching, she found my name under a different case number and up popped the purse.

"Here we go," she said. And plopped the purse down on the counter behind the window.
We looked at each other in silence. She made no move to hand me my purse, not that it would have fit through the tiny document window opening that separated us.
"Uh.... is there a pickup fee?" I asked.
"No, ma'am. Can I see your ID?"
We played document exchange and I joked that she could have just looked inside the purse for my ID. She grinned. I thanked her for her office's time. And then we looked at each other for another long moment.
...
...
"Is there something else I need to provide? Some other document?" I asked, uncertain.
"No."
"So... is that it? Do I get my purse back?" I ask, really confused as to why we were standing there. Again.
"No, but I can't just let you back here to get it," she said, indignant.
I thought about it. I hadn't considered that I might be a safety risk.
"Well, I don't think it will fit through the window," I said, looking for a way to get the purse out of the office. She rolled her eyes and fumbled at the door lock.
"Oh, just come on in," she said grumpily.

And 90 minutes after I parked my car, my quest was complete. The windmills did not defeat me, yet I did not slay the dragon. I'll leave that up to government reformers.

So the title of this upcoming movie may not scare everybody. But it scares the crap out of me. I hate bugs. But despite its rather unassuming name, this film is not a cheap horror flick in the vein of "Saw" or "Species."

But this bug movie is scary in its own way, directed, as it is, by "The Exorcist's," William Friedkin. The bug movie is actually an adaptation of a play by Tracy Letts, an off-Broadway play called "The Barrow Street Bug" that was a hit. The play had crappy production values, but the exploration of trailer trash paranoia caught the eye of the New York Times. The grey lady called it "the season's wildest ride," and the New Yorker said it was the best play in town.

So maybe newspaper reviews aren't your thing. But despite her penchant for choosing some really awful early Julia Roberts-type fare - "Double Jeopardy," "Eye of the Beholder," "Someone Like You" - Ashley Judd is a strong actress, as proven by "De-Lovely," "Frida," and her earlist film, "Ruby in Paradise."

Click here to watch the bug movie's trailer.


Claustrophobia is one of its most essential elements. But the bug movie is all about the taking over of Agnes' (Judd) frail mental world. It looks powerful and frightening.

And so do the posters:







See how the posters could fool someone into thinking that this is a straight horror film? That would be like saying "Naked Lunch" is about a typewriter. Bug movie is about process, and the process is Peter's taking over of Agnes' fragile mental and physical world. Friedkin's method of filming always gives his subject matter a hallucinatory edge. I'm dying to see how the difference between stage and screen play out.

Incidentally, I also like the design of both posters. The top one is spidery and dark, almost Edwardian in its feel. It suggests the horror within, as opposed to an external horror. The bottom one is watery and suggests a certain fluidity of personality. I like both. The top tells the story of a dark internal path, and the bottom tells the story of the malleability of the human mind once it is weakened. That's more disturbing to me than any real bug can ever be.

This quiz on msnbc.com troubles me on several different levels. I'm not interested in the debate on abortion. That is not why I posted this. So shut up before you even start.

My problem is with the wording of the question. First, I didn't get a chance to watch the debate, because Grey's Anatomy had a two-hour special. I'm sorry, but John McCain's "Hey! I'm still alive! Vote for me, okay? It's my freaking turn!" act can't compare with that Meredith chick finally getting the slap across the face that she has so long deserved.

So, my point, is that I don't know if this was the exact wording of the question posed to the candidates, or if this was simply the wording MSNBC used when they composed this quiz. But the wording, by whomever, shows (in my opinion) one of the problems with the debate about abortion.

First, it doesn't matter which one of the candidates would call for repeal of Roe v. Wade. It was a Supreme Court decision, and not a law. Only laws passed by the legislature can be repealed. It cannot be overturned by a higher court, so it cannot be appealed either. The only thing that can happen is that the Supreme Court could reverse its decision in a future ruling. It hasn't happened, but it's not as though it couldn't. I think Giuliani said he wouldn't call for repeal because, as a former U.S. Attorney, he understood this. As talking chimpanzees, most other politicians do not.

Second, the Roe v. Wade decision did not legalize abortion nationwide. It said, simply, that it was not the place of the federal government to legislate on this issue. It left the decision up to the states. Most people cite Justice Sandra Day O'Conner's insistence that the question of abortion's legality is one of an issue of privacy covered by the Fourth Amendment. But that opinion has long been debated. What has not been as hotly debated - probably because it's less politically expedient - is whether or not the issue does or does not fall under the parameters of federal authority.

My point - and I do have one - is that the question is loaded. Whether it was asked of the candidates with this particular phrasing, or whether it was written in this way by MSNBC when posting this quiz, it exemplifies how easily the zeitgeist (thanks, A.W.!) can be corrupted by political speechifying. And that's an insult to Americans who can understand these issues when media whores aren't jockeying for camera time and sound bites with their facile understanding of the issues at hand.

Every time Emerson comes in close contact with some dangerous object at her day care, like, say, marshmallows, they have to write me an accident/incident report and, of course, I freak out. Really, I think they have some desire to watch a parent have an actual heart attack right in front of them.

Sometimes it's something serious, like the time little Amare hit Emmie in the face with a plastic truck and gave her a black eye. But Friday, when I picked her up, there was yet another report in her cubbie, and not a scratch on her. "Uh-oh," I thought. "Emmie's finally fighting back."

"What did you do?" I asked her. She looked up at me worriedly.

As it turns out, she fell down. That's all. She was running on the playground and fell down, hitting her lip on a ride-on toy. There was nothing wrong with her, but the report says that the day care gave her an ice pack and T.L.C.

A section on the form asks what steps are taken to prevent re-occurrence of similar accidents. What can they do? Ban running? Gravity? Lips?

I'm not looking to get rich off this blog, but I am looking to make enough money over the course of six months to pay to take two underprivileged children to Disney World in October. They are sweet boys. To do that, I registered with Google AdSense, among others. But it seems that the good robots at Google reject such topics as the one I previously posted. Well, I only have one thing to say to you, Google Ad Sense Keyword Crawler Thing-a-Ma-Bob:

Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, Anna Nicole Smith, Earth Day, Blue Angels, Katie Price, Jessica Lynch, Skybus, Pokemon Diamond, Coachella, Mike Penner, New Planet, Mother's Day, Father's Day, Christmas, Halloween, bargain shopping, Burning Man, Disney, American Idol, Spider-Man 3, NBA, WWE, Hi-5, Avril Lavigne, Beyonce Knowles, Limewire, Lindsay Lohan, Kentucky Derby, Lost, Naruto, Runescape, Grey's Anatomy, Angelina Jolie, T-Pain, Spider-Man, Tina Fey, Pamela Beach, Roy Pearson, Queen Elizabeth II, Katie Leung, David Hasselhoff, Lauren Graham, Menu Foods, Politico.com, Patrick Dempsey, Republican Debate, Charm Bracelets, Dubai Map, Sean Connery, Jack the Ripper, Bette Midler, The View, and Alexis Bidel.

So there.

I've been told that God hates fags. And, apparently, in much the same way as Santa Clause, he's making a list and checking it twice. Particularly if you play the devil's rock music. According to LoveGodsWay.org, which has a video called "God Hates Fags," (how charming) there are certain bands and musical artists who promote homosexuality. Like Barry Manilow. And Wilson Phillips. And Frank Sinatra. Pinko commie gay bastards all.

But Evanescence, Cheap Trick and Sufjan Stevens are all "safe," as are the Dresden Dolls, Blondie and Cyndi Lauper. Clearly their logic is unassailable.

A complete list of gay bands can be found here. The site lists such things because: "The bottom line - you shouldn't be gay!" But they're still tolerant of a Cheap Trick song called "The Flame."

To paraphrase by blog-buddy Stak: Rock it like Jesus loves you more!

It is Day Five of Cookie Watch '07, and the dough has not moved yet. It seems that Sharon is conducting a cruel experiment on her coworkers. This was the scene on Saturday:



And the line inside:



These tortured souls, drawn by the scent of all that cookie goodness.

During what was probably the best First Friday Augusta has ever had - congrats and thanks to the Greater Augusta Arts Council and poop on the Downtown Development Authority - Emerson and I had a great time just walking around the street festival listening to the musicians, watching people, and talking to acquaintances.

Many vendors had just pulled up their cars, vans or handcarts onto the sidewalk or the green spaces and hawked their wares from their trunks or hatchbacks. The free market economy at work. Most everything they sold had James Brown emblazoned across the merchandise, since it was the city's first birthday celebration since his passing in December. Of course, they were all misappropriating his image, so maybe not the free market economy at work. Maybe trademark and copyright infringement at work. But anyway.

As Emmie and I tromped back down Broad Street toward the car - it was very close to her bedtime - one of the enterprising young ladies with a minivan full of merchandise stopped us. "Here," she said, rather unceremoniously. "I'm giving these away to children today." From the white cloth shone the silkscreened face of the Godfather of Soul. "I'm Real," the caption said.

"Thank you very much," I replied, feigning delight. I didn't want to accept it, because - okay, well it was ugly. But Emerson snatched it out of the lady's hands with a "dankoo" and we went on our way. It was a pair of panties. Size XL. Tweety Bird on the front, James Brown on the back. Free panties. From a person we didn't know. On the street. I started to toss them in the nearest garbage can, but...

"PANNEEEEES!" Emerson shrieked with excitement. "Panneees!" She waved them at me. "Emmie panneees!" She laughed and jumped like someone has just told her we'd be moving into a house made entirely of cookies, cake and candy, and that we'd have to eat our way out for $1 million. I let it go. They were clearly hers.

"Panneees!" she ran in a little circle. She's lagging a little behind in her potty training at day care, so some other little girls wear Dora the Explorer panties or other such underclothes made entirely of rainbows and the woven hairs of faerie princesses. Faerie ballerina princesses. Emerson desperately wants to wear panties. She steals mine and puts them on, pulling them up to her armpits and waddling around the house, pointing to the lace. "Fwowers!"

But right now she is waving the panties frantically at me. "Panneees!" she crowed. "Pannees!"
"Yeah, pannees!" I reflected back to her. "Very nice!"
"Puh on." she insisted.
"Okay," I said. "You can put them on."
"Ahhhhhhh!" she scream-laughed, and ran a little circle. "Emmie puh on pannees!"
"Well, go ahead."
And she stopped and pulled them into place.
On her head.

A local media personality picked her daughter up from a sleepover recently, and got some disturbing news. Apparently, after they thought the children had gone to bed, the chaperoning set of parents had enjoyed some time in their hot tub.
"They were doing it," this woman's daughter said, obviously scandalized in her pre-teen years.
"What do you mean?" her mother asked, prepared to have "The Talk" if necessary.
"Well, they were naked in the hot tub. That means they were doing it, right?"
"Maybe," her mother answered. Her daughter looked up at her in adorable prepubescent adoration.
"Mom, please tell me that you and Daddy don't do that," she begged. Her mom didn't miss a beat.
"No, sweetie. We don't have a hot tub."

Anyone who knows me understands what a bargain hunter I am. I know every thrift shop west of Atlanta, and - except for lunch, for which I never seem to plan - spend as little of my own money on things as I can. I'm a member of every points club that will have - faulty as their judgment may be - and have been collecting favors from surveys for two years now.

So I like to let people know when I come across something that is good for saving money, or getting free samples, or whatever. And Bid4Prizes is giving away some coveted electronics - an Apple iPhone?! Flat Screen TV?! A Nintendo Wii?! Gah! I want them all like crazy! - through a unique program. The LOWEST UNIQUE bidder actually wins the auction.

That means the lowest amount of money that only one person bids is the winner. But they don't actually pay the money. They just win the prize. I know, it sounds a little odd, but a short video on the site explains the process. Frankly, all I see is an free iPod on my future. And maybe a Wii. Don't ask me why I want a Wii so badly. I just do! I want to shoot bunnies with toilet plungers! It's an illness!

But I think that a site like Bid4Prizes might be the cure. I'd love to be able to win something really great, that I totally don't need, like the BMW that's up for auction, and then donate it to the Garden City Rescue Mission. They need so much, and an additional vehicle could go a long way for them.

Or maybe I'll just keep the Beamer and give them my old Dodge! HA!

I tell you what: I'll let you know when I win!

Everyone who works in an office knows the horrors of the refrigerator. This is no match for it.


Usually, someone on staff takes it upon themselves to clean out the fridge. It usually seems to be me, but I can't take all the credit. Sometimes I send threatening e-mails to the rest of the staff, reminding them at Ebola is a horrific way to die and I'm pretty sure you can catch it from items like THIS:



But some things aren't as obvious, like this entree that has been in the refrigerator - the old one, too - for as long as I've worked here:

And yet, sometimes the things that we WOULD eat are far more revealing, such as this tower of Lean Cuisine frozen meals. Talk about irony. It's topped off with a giant tub of cookie dough. :



Beverages, too, can tell their own stories. Someone here has been pulling a Goldilocks, and Mama Bear is pissed:

Can you see Scott's sunglasses? They have red flames running down the sides. Next he'll be sticking one of those "3" stickers on our car, wearing "wife beaters," and saying things like "Hoooo-DADDY!" and "Aahhhhhh-yep."

I can't believe that market research people get paid to ask these kinds of retarded questions.

If the coffee from these stores was a type of music, which would it be?

Please choose one type of music for each coffee: Burger King, McDonald's, Dunkin Donuts, Wawa, 7 - 11, Starbucks

Salsa
Gospel
Hip Hop
Heavy Metal
Classic Rock
Opera
Classical
New Age
Country-Western
Easy Listening
Tejano
Show Tune
Oldies
Rap
Military March
R & B
Adult Contemporary
Top 40/Pop
Blues

Speaking with a local member of the arts community about the plot of operas...

"It's about, well, what they're all about, basically. Love and the search for love," I said to him, and he laughed.
"Of course," he said. "We love, we love, we kill... or then we die of consumption."

A.C. once had an alcohol-induced gigglefest with a friend of hers. They bought a bunch of stuff out of a bar's bathroom vending machines, and decided to pack her husband's bike kit with it instead of rubber hosing and whatever bicycle racers keep in it for repairs. Jim had a race the next day, and of course he got a flat. While he was hopping off his bike to assess the damage, a race official walked up to him. "You need some help?" the official asked. "No, thanks," Jim answered, opening the kit. "I have everything right here." Which he did, if he needed condoms, lubricant, cheap cologne and French ticklers. The race official took one look at his "kit" and walked away.

Jim didn't talk to A.C. for two days.

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A few years ago, A.C.² was refinishing the basement of her home with her husband. Their children made a bit of a mess leaving their toys around, and her husband snapped at them for it, and made them cry. Then he went off to band practice (guitars, not tubas and marching), and left his toolbelt on the dining room table. She decided to teach him a lesson.

She put the very heavy toolbelt in the trash can, with the intention of simply making her point once he saw it there. And then she forgot about it. Later that week, he asked for his tool belt. Oops!

She didn't confess until 6 months later.

Invented just today, it consists of a half a Krispie Kreme doughnut and a scoop of ice cream. These are the kinds of ideas that helped to make America the great country it is today.

Blonde boy looks a lot like Jim Christian! Why didn't you tell us that you're in a band? And that you fix cars? And what are you doing with your hand between your legs, man?! Stop it!

Look at this accidentally funny picture I took of the rehearsals for "South Pacific" by the Augusta Players? I was trying to shoot from the side of the Imperial Theater's stage, and the problem is that there's a giant hole known as the orchestra pit there. Plus the lights were all down and... well, I pretty much suck as a photographer. But I'm learning.

This, however, is the kind of greatness that no one can teach.


She looks like she's pooping out the sailor behind her.

Regardless of her intestinal issues, let me tell you that I met this lovely woman (whose name escapes me) who is playing Bloody Mary in the production. What a lovely voice she has! She sang through Bali Hai'i a few times, and it was prettier each time.

The Augusta Players will present "South Pacific" May 4-5 at 8 p.m., and May 6 at 3 p.m., at the Imperial Theatre. Visit augustaplayers.com, or imperialtheatre.com.

This is the alley to one side of the Imperial Theater. It looks as though it serves as "scene shop" for the companies who perform there. Sawhorses, scenery flats, random pieces of furniture and other items lay strewn about.



I just don't understand how sad arts funding has to get before you have to store your equipment in a broken-down old pickup truck parked in an alley.